The Luxury of Peace: How I Attained "Zen"

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If I were to describe my life in the last four years, I would say that it was a chapter of incredible transition. In February 2022, I would have an entire sleepless night every two weekends for whatever reason. Tossing and turning in my bed, listening to the most relaxing classical music but with eyes staring at semi-lit ceiling was the normal. But things have changed dramatically over the last few years. Today, it would only take a minute, sometimes fifteen minutes at most, for me to fall asleep.

Perhaps, I'm in a brand new chapter of my life. And I wish and hope that this lasts indefinitely. This is the stage where I have "peace," where I don't have problems out of my control, where I don't have enemies I would sometimes think of, where I don't have debts anymore, where I am contented with my life but looking forward to a bright future. Nothing holds me back anymore. Which is why I am excited.

In this series of articles, I will write what I did to attain peace. Although this is purely anecdotal, I believe that the things I did can be done by just about anybody.


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